Nine days after the incident, doctors operated on Elné to remove dead tissue on her hand and arm. Their hope was that the poison had already worked out. This was, however, not the case. Last week, already three weeks after the snake bite, doctors still had to postpone her skin graft surgery as there was still signs of poison inside her body.

 

Elné’s story reminded me of an old but effective strategy that the enemy uses in our lives to prevent us from enjoying a life in abundance, namely unforgiveness. When someone hurts us, it's like the snake that bites us and releases venom inside our hearts.

 

If we choose to quickly forgive and acquit the offender, it is like an "antidote" being administered. The poison cannot spread further. However, if we take offense and choose in our hurt not to forgive, our anger turns into an unforgiving heart, bitterness and even hatred – which spreads like venom to all aspects of our lives, bringing destruction as far as it goes.

 

In Matthew 6:14-15 we read: “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.  But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Also in Ephesians 4: 26-27 it is written: “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.”

 

Why should we not go to bed angry? Because tomorrow it will be harder to forgive and the day after that, even harder. Unforgiveness robs us from our peace and joy and ultimately a life in abundance. That is where the enemy wants to keep us, but we know the antidote for this: Forgiveness.

 

Who do you have a grudge towards? Your spouse, your mother-in-law, a colleague, a brother, a former best friend? Let us ask God to enable us to forgive. And let us choose to not go to bed angry. This gives the enemy the foothold he longs for. God bless.

 

 

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