Carina Francke

Col 4:6:"Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."

Words can be like spitting destroying lava from your mouth, or it could be like refreshing cool water from a fountain. Words are probably one of the most important ways to reveal who you belong to, because the things that come out of the mouth, come from the heart.(Matt 15:18,19). No wonder then that Proverbs 4:23 teaches: "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life."

Why does the Bible so intensely emphasize the things we say? Maybe the answer lies with the Author of words, namely God himself. When He used words, He created, and everything in the heavens, the sea and on the earth got substance and became alive. His words before the creation of man, lay the foundation of their nature: "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness..." (Genesis 1:26)

Is it then strange that He inspired a writer to write down the following words? "The tongue has the power of life and death." (Proverbs 18:21).  You can speak life or death by your words. Let's be clear, words do not have magical powers, but have an unbelievable influence on man's psyche - it infects the whole body: "The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell." (James 3:6)

Maybe this is the reason Paul warns that our conversations should be full of grace and  good taste? Or that we should be sensitive to the circumstances in every conversation, and only speak what is wholesome and helpful to others? (Ephesians 4:29).  Could it be that deceitful words and an evil tongue can steal our love for life and take away the privilege from us to see good days?(1 Peter 3:10)

Why does the Word so clearly emphasize wholesome conversations and good words? Because You and I, as the bearers of the image of God, should make His rulership in our lives visible, even by what we say. Our words should be full of grace to "build people up according to their needs and that those who listen, may benefit."(Ephesians 4:29). You should remember, we were created to be fountains that provide sweet, drinkable water to a world that thirsts to see truth and righteousness in action.

Prayer: My Father, let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart be acceptable before You. May my words be of such a nature that people may hear Your voice in my words. Amen